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He didn't think I could do it
And honestly š¤·āāļø I didn't either ?!?

Motherhood, helping little voices grow & much more.
Brought to you by Tabitha Paige.
read time 4-5 minutes
But here we are⦠Two newsletters. Two weeks in a row. Same day! My husband is beside himself. (I think heās already planning a parade.)
Consistency has never been my strong suit (especially in this season) but something about this space, connecting with you, feels life-giving. So thank you for showing up. Iām showing up too. Letās dive in š

These past few weeks in a minute:
Studio dreams are becoming real! Weāre just a few weeks (hopefully!) away from finishing renovations on one of our smaller cabins and itās going to be EPIC! Weāre turning it into an office/studio space just for me - Jordanās building it out, and I couldnāt be more excited. Weāve already added 5 windows for dreamy natural light and a few other surprises I canāt wait to show you. I havenāt had my own space to paint/ create since we moved 4 years ago⦠which means that our dining room table is constantly covered up and spilling over with artwork - mama is ready!!!
4th of July šŗšø prep looks a little different out here. On our property, we live in a little pocket surrounded by bluffs, which means one firework sounds like fifty. Country folk (I swear) budget about half of their income for fireworks each year, and while our kids are thrilled... the animals are not. So, we spend the evening ensuring donkeys, cows, ducks, geese, chickens and dogs donāt end up hurting themselves or wind up 10 miles awayā¦. this actually happened two years ago, New Yearās Eveā¦. Lola (our 14-year-old Collie/Golden mix and certified sweetheart) slipped outside and bolted during the fireworks. She ended up on an epic 5-day journey (many of you cried and rejoiced along with me) only to turn up 10 miles away!
āActual footageā of my reunion with Lola.
This weekās survival plan: Expect 2 Great Pyrenees to make their way inside. Pray š they donāt discover how to open the pantry.
Broody hen science experiment: Iām letting one of our hens attempt to hatch three duck eggs... will it work? No idea. But youāll be the first to know š£. Pray for this mama-to-be (and that she doesnāt notice her chicksā webbed feet)
ā Tabitha Paige, Author/ Illustrator, Speech Therapist & Mom

Itās never too early to start reading.
As a speech therapist (and a mom of four), I can tell you with confidence: reading to your baby from the very beginning makes a difference.
Even in the newborn stage, reading introduces your baby to the rhythm of language - things like intonation, pitch changes, and pauses - which are the building blocks for future speech and understanding. Theyāre listening long before theyāre talking.
Donāt worry if it feels silly at first. Your baby isnāt following the plot - theyāre soaking up how language works. Repetition, rhyming, and even simple picture descriptions all help strengthen early neural connections tied to communication.
The goal isnāt perfection - itās presence. A few minutes a day, a cozy lap, and your voice is all it takes to begin building a strong foundation for language (and a sweet habit youāll both love).

Truthfully, itās been a tough few weeks with extra screen time given⦠Evie (our 3-year-old firecracker) has been recovering, unable to play outside much, unable to hold her beloved chickens - so we are working through the detox process of removing television from our routine. Evie says: Ditch the screen this week, grab some friends, go on a walk and sing along to some of your favorite classics.
šµ What are we listening to on our golf cart rides this summer? Country Rose (aka Take Me Home, Country Roads by John Denver). šµ

Lately, we noticed something in our house: a little too much complaining. Me, Jordan, the kids... everyone. Itās easy to fall into during tough seasons, but also? It spreads. So we started something new (and itās already helping⦠kind of, weāll see š ). We have two jars:
HARVEST - for compliments, encouragement, kindness, etc.
COMPOST - for complaints, grumbling, arguing or gossip
šø The rule:
If you drop something in the āCOMPOSTā jar, you owe it a dollar ā and that dollar comes out of the āHARVESTā jar. So yes, you can end up with a beautifully empty jar of goodness if you're not careful.
šø At the end of the month:
HARVEST jar - we do something fun as a family. COMPOST- we pick a person or charity to donate the money towards. Jordan claims that itās less about the money, more about helping the girls associate a physical action with the behavior/ emotion.
Wanna join us for July?
Let me know if you try it⦠Iād love to hear how it goes!
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